Wait a minute, how can you get upset, you have no idea what exactly is being done. It could be nothing more than some fresh paint and a good old fashion cleaning.
So basically you don't have enough facts to make any kind of judgment or reaction. Until you have the facts make no reactions or judgments.
I will once again harp on the need for you to be saving money for yourself. I suspect your gut is right and money isn't nearly as tight as she's leading you to believe. She may think it's tight but has she really made any major budgetary sacrifices? Time for you to be putting a couple hundred away each month for yourself. If anything it'll give you money to make the necessary deposits on an apartment or house to rent along with the utilities.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
