That sounds like great progress. While you got her to open up last night, I wouldnt push her on the subject again for a while. Those are reasonalble wants / needs. You just now need to figure out how to provide them. I'm sure that you are a great provider on many fronts. Without shoving them into her face, maybe you can better display some of the ways that you provide.
Stay patient and good luck on the job front.
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