FLTC Up early is an old habit. I had the same motivations on power of attorney and regret it. Can you check on your accounts on the internet?
If she sold the house it would impact the kids and you need to provide an alternate location so no garage.
As far as drinking when I got back I drank less. The absense of problems and clear thinking caused by sobority for our Company in general made an impact. I knew my capacity for rational clear thinking was reduced when I returned so why complicate matters?
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin
