I am fairly positive that he has not been seeing her. I have checked his phone before now, both texts and calls, and there has been nothing. For the most part, since we are so involved together with the business, I know most of the time where he is at. So I feel fairly confident that there hasn't been anything before now. He may have seen her at her job because she works at a store that we go to, but that would be it I think.
The first text he wrote to her the night before last was an apology for not communicating with her, so that strengthens my thoughts on that. They wished each other the best. He said maybe they could have a beer sometime under "different terms." Then she wrote yesterday as a "P.S." about winning the bet, and he wrote back saying he would still pay on it as far as dinner and to let him know when. No phone calls from what I can tell. However, he did erase her name from him phone book so that her name doesn't come up in the text, just her phone number. He just erased it the other night the first time he texted her.
He hasn't changed his stature towards me at all. Everything is the same, and it's going very well. We made love last night (probably in part for me to feel close to him from feeling insecure and scared), and it was really nice.
