My Wife wants out..still!!

[Heimlich]

Mark,
You've taken some whacks from us yesterday, so here's something else to think about: It's not all your fault.

For myself, I found that when I started on this DBing path, I placed most of the blame on myself and very little on my W. That's not reality. Reality is that it takes two to make or break a M. It's OK to own up for your mistakes, and you've done a good job of that. It's not OK for you to take all of the blame onto yourself. You're W has her share too.

OK,that doens't invalidate all the stuff everyone said about anger earlier.

BD