One day at a time, #3

[saffie]

Luv,

I feel I am always hitting you with a 2x4. I don't mean to be horrid.

You know, once when I was in a quandary about something, I was talking things through with a friend. It was a situation I had sought professional advice about but I obviously wasn't happy because I kept questioning what I had been told. My friend answer to me was

"you sought and paid for professional advice. I cannot see anything has changed since you got that advice. The person that advised you was an expert in their field. Until you have followed their advice and it doesn't work I suggest you do not seek further advice. At the moment you just are not heeding the advice you were given because it is easier to do that than to follow it".

I felt really pissed at this person for saying this to me. But you know what, when I thought about it, she was right. And the advice I had been given worked - I just didn't fancy following it - I wanted an easy, magic cure - which didn't exist.

Try what your C suggested.

saffie