thanks LN, my H is learning little by little to express himself without being defensive, and I think it is a plus that later he always is the one to talk to me again after we argue. Off to make an @ss of myself (shiny costume is waiting for me), we are going to a halloween party tomorrow night, was able to farm off the kids to a good friend who'll have them sleep over so we dont' have to hurry home like last year, we are both looking forward to it.
Keeping you in my prayers LN, thanks for stopping by
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
