it's easy for him to say that as a form of comfort to someone miles away - it's not something one just does. Does he even know what she looks like now?

Limbo, he isn't going anywhere. Think how much he must love you to go to Retro. My H wouldn't have gone even if it was available - his pride would have gotten in the way.

You need to cut each other some slack. Piecing IS NOT easy. You are doing a good job. Both of you appear to be willing and love each other. You can get there.

saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength