She can live her own life but running away is not the answer to the problem AND blaming me makes it so easy.
Preaching to the choir. You don't have to tell me your arguments...and it wouldn't matter if you told her these same arguments. Yes, running away is not the answer...in your opinion (and in mine). BUT, she felt it was the right thing to do, for whatever reason. Of course you are blamed...that's the way it usually goes down.
Who said it wasn't okay to want a reconciliation? I said that being angry wasn't going to bring it about. So if that's what you want, why don't you table it and consider that she doesn't see things the same way as you.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
