Thanks again Saffie!!

I have been spending alittle time reading other peoples posts and the responses they got in there sits
And its helping me get perspective, I need to detach, and I need to stop worrying about what he might or might not be doing.
You are right we have made alot of positive gains, and I have to be thankful for that, and he says he wants to stay.
Its not going to be easy, i know that, but me being this way isn't going to make things any easier, and maybe how I have been in the last few weeks did contribute to H slipping back.

However I do have some fear and one is what if this other women does say get on the next plane and come?! He already said if she asked he would be!


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda