Thanks everyone. The thoughts have helped. Divorce Remedy has given me some inspiration and I am looking into ordering the entire book. I'm trying to give her space but it is tearing me apart that she doesn't want to work on this. I know deap down she still loves me but she has lost it somewhere between the late hours working and our child. They were always first and I always seemed to be the last thing in her mind or heart. We have lost our way and if she could just find the will to give it a try I know we can make it.