Jeff, Thanks for the template, it is exactly what I needed.

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The rest is sorrow: loss of my best friend, loss of the familiar, loss of security, the impacts on my kids. Things I also cannot control.


Amen brother.

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Divorce WILL hurt the kids. I cannot believe my fW heard this and did not react to it (she already took the class).


I can't get my head around this. They know that, but it's just not important to them. I could understand if these things were happening in a hateful or abusive R, but "I'm not happy here, I'm not in love with you anymore," just doesn't seem like a good enough reason for this damage. My wife scheduled the class for us together. I can't decide if I want to go the next month, or just go with her and get it over with.


I believe I'm heading for your situation. I too am confidant that my M could be rebuilt. I hope I can stand as long as you have.

That's honor.



Last edited by theforlornhope; 10/26/07 01:20 PM.

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The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory