One day at a time, #3

[LuvMyHusband]

I must have reached my limit on my other thread because I'm locked out. I slept on my problem from last night. I still don't know what to do. I'm going to meet with a friend of mine today and go over a financial plan so that I will be fine. I'm not trying to be mean or push him further away but I do have to be realistic. The bills that are in just his name come to about 500 a month. He decided to leave. He decided on this path. It's bad enough that I am left holding the bag. I don't think I should have to hold it for him too.

I told him yesterday when he said he would not be controlled. I will not be used. He can demand money from me but not give anything? I know that we are not supposed to talk about the OW but it just burns me that he can talk and listen to her more than me, she knows where he is and more about him than I do, so obviously he gives of himself more to her but then wants ME to give him money??? Incredible. Let her give him money.