It's amazing how they all say things will go back to the old ways again. My H told me the same thing at the beginning of our ordeal. Well, if they would think about that makes no sense. Look at it this way apparently at one time they liked something about us or they wouldn't have married us. It must have been after we married that we "changed" so why not got back to the old ways? Does this make any sense?
Makes perfect sense Yoyo, although I don't think I've changed all that much. Still fun, adventurous and caring. I think the biggest issue with our R is that we lost focus on us. Normal life happens right? Kids, work, chores etc. Now someone else comes into the picture and all of those distractions are outside of the scope of the new R. Everything is idealistic and wonderful. Easy to understand how the WAS can look back and think that they really haven't been happy. I think they all need a dose of reality.
