Maybe if she can't look at you, especially when you are all dudded up, she's realizing how attracted to you she still is and kicking herself. I know after my H dropped the D bomb, I all of a sudden realized how very attracted to him I still was and how sexy I found him. I was absolutely kicking myself for having let the M go as far down the tubes as it had and was now losing my H. I think we end up taking our spouses for granted a lot of times and they are "just" husband or wife and we don't "see" them the way we did when we married them b/c they are there 24/7. Until something drastic happens and then sometimes we're like woah, I still truly love this person the same way I did way back then, what the heck happened to our M?
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
