Time for healing without closing the door

[saffie]

Casey,

I have skimmed through your sitch and I am a bit confused. Where do you want to be in this M? Do you want to be M still or do you want a D? I just can't get a handle in that. I can see that the interactions between you and your H are hurtful and strained but I don't understand what end result you want. Do you know?

With the tickets I guess if it was me I would probably just ask him to confirm if he was still on for the gig or not. If he is then try and make the most of it. You will always be in contact whatever the M outcome because of your D and at a concert it is hard to talk once it starts.Any good time you spend together will benefit your D in the long run. If he doesn't want to go then you can ask someone along who would enjoy it. I know it's hard - a couple of times My H came to things with me when we weren't getting along - and they were things I liked and he didn't particularly - but in actual fact it seemed the more I dreaded an event and wondered what he would be like the more he suprised me and I would go home actually having liked it.

Hang in there girl.

Saffie