Time for healing without closing the door

[nephartiti]

"What am I doing wrong in these conversations?"

Casey, this was totally inappropriate of your H. I am floored. I don't know him, but I only see two possible motives.

1. To cover his ass if this OW loopy calls you.
2. To hurt you by rubbing his OW in your face.

Boundaries, my dear. Put them in place and stand firm. When you said you were too busy to talk, you should have stuck with it. Unless he is ending his other R's and seriously talking reconciliation, then R talk about OW are off limits. I know he wanted to be "friends" but this is not healthy. No, not at all. Well, that's my opinion anyway.

Sorry you have to put up with this BS. I don't know what's worse. My H who denies til he turns blue or your H who is so blatant you can smell it.

(((HUGS)))