f him, mk, your tone did not make him cheat. he has sole responsibility for that. however, it may make you look at aspects of your marriage in a very different way. I know it has mine.

more importantly, it may help you communicate better with him now. it may help you achieve your goals now, whatever they may be.

Last edited by morgan; 10/26/07 02:36 AM.
M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher