mk, it must be hard for you, having known him for so long. having been in love with him for so long. I know you have had other relationships, but still, he was your young love, and that has to have a very special hold for you.
I don't believe there is only one person out there for us. I don't. I don't believe we are destined to being alone and unhappy, because of choices our h's have made. I think the soul-searching we are doing in this process will help us in the long run become an even better partner for a future relationship, when we are ready. I swear I think the whole reason I don't find other men attractive right now is because I am not ready to. someday I hope I will find someone attractive again, who knows. I'm really starting to think that it won't happen until I am really ready, though.
(((HUGS))) I know how hard this day has been for you.
what did your d's shrink say about what your d is saying? any insight?
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
