It is hard to know. But I thought TH's tried to help us out of painful sitches so maybe that is the MO. I canhardly see clearly lyself. I do not agree though. I think your H is being emotional. He is not numb or cold or even apathetic. He is more lost and mistrustful. It was hard hearing my mom said I did not even have a 10-20 % chance of getting my H back and she has been through two sepaarations where she was pretty sure the chance at 50% was still a battle. I know she is not being negative. In your case, you have a big chance of being together in the long run.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."