Oh, MK. I feel for you, I do. I know what you mean about wondering if we can find another "soul mate". I'm sure I can find someone and feel "in love", but I want something lasting. I don't want to be here again after another 5 year R.

I think the trick, no matter what, is to work on our own personal healing. When we become truly whole, we will not depend on an R for our happiness. When that happens, we can open ourselves up for a truly healthy R. When that happens, we will truly detach from our H's without disdain.

If you figure out how to accomplish this, please fill me in. I got the idea, but not the technique. Go figure.

An ex-employer used to say "Life is the most efficient, yet unconventional, teacher. It tests you first, then teaches you the lesson."


Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9