amazon.com You will have the book in about two days. Strange how our sitch aside from the OW seems to be turning into mine. Two people under the same roof growing apart. I don't know what is better, if they move out then it seems harder to communicate and mend things. But then again it is easier to Gal and think things out. Damned if ya do and damned if ya don't. I have tried to take a break form dbing this week. IT HAS BEEN A LOOONG WEEK. Tomorrow W has a self esteem class. I hope this helps her. I am going to strike while the iron is hot and fresh in her mind. Sit with her and No R talk but find out how the class went and what I can do to help. I don't think this 1 day class will do much but ya never know. Sorry about your H. ya need to re group and start again. Not sure about contacting the OW husband. If you do first ask yourself why you are doing it and what do you hope to accomplish. These questions have stopped me so many times form contacting my W OM. My usual answer is BECASE I AM PISSED. There is always a ripple affect in everything we do. If the OW husband is lost and his W tells him you are lying and just trying to get back at her and that she loves him and want to work on their marriage, who do you think he is going to believe? His heart still belongs to her Take care LWB ya know where I am vent ta me any time, I need to go write Saffie a mushy letter to wake up too
Husband.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
