Joie, You hooked me with the title of your thread. My W is also currently a fence sitter. Although I don't think she is still actively involved with the OG, she has yet to commit to coming back to our R and working on things. We had a discussion the other night where she told me she expects that after the holidays, she will file for D.
After having read your last post, I would imagine that your H must be getting tired of the OW's antics. Coming over drunk and arguing with him. That's totally classless and he must be seeing that.
I'm hoping your working on your detaching and GAL / PMA. I can only imagine that you are 100 x's more attractive / desirable at this point than the OW. Don't expect immediate results.
