FLTC, I havent been in the service for 12 years now. We don't have any kids. I just hate not knowing what is going through her head. I feel as if I should go out and find a woman who would treat me well. At this point I am not ready to do that though although the idea is becoming more attractive. I am very nice to W, sometimes I think I am too nice. I am instituting NC for awhile. Will she call, who knows? I am preparing myself for the worst but as you said and hoping for the best. We haven't had any arguments in quite a while and that is a positive. Oh well, back to waiting her out....