Great story. Sometimes though people dig such a huge hole such as my H I think there is no coming back.

My mom also had success this year and for that I am very happy! She and her companion of 21 years are back together for two months now. It has made a real improvement in her life. She never snooped, went dark, stayed positive, dated other men, accepted that he would date other women, never questioned his MLC, he spent a lot of his money, she let it go which is a huge 180. They are together only half the week as they are Piecing still so they are in there separate living spaces the other days but they talk on the phone all the time like teenagers in love again. It is really great to see that a separation could actually improve a R!

BTW, she said there is no way my H would ever comeback to me. She said she knew the difference between her partner and my H. She said there was always a little waffling on her partner's part but that my H went plumb crazy and burnt all bridges to a crisp way beyond a normal MLC more like a social suicide.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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