Good that you see the pattern. Have you seen Woody Allen's Husbands and Wives? It is actually a remarkable study of how we communicate and deal with separation.
What busted the divorce in this movie. The W GAL and started dating other men. The cheating H heard his wife was GAL., looked great, dating some fab man. Oooo this sent the H over the top when he realized what he had done by leaving his W for some 20 somtuning dumb personal trainer into astrology.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."