Ya know... if I were a different person.. who didnt give a damn about what is good for my children, and didnt give a damn about the sanctity of marriage... yeah. I'd be out of here. A long time ago. I've looked around, and I know that there are a LOT of women, who DO care about honesty, marriage, and would be a whole lot easier to have a positive, enjoyable relationship with.
But.. I do care about those things. Any one of those things, would in theory be enough to make me keep trying.
Dom, these are the reasons why we all love you on this forum and I know how you feel about the d word, no not that d word.....d...a...t... you know, but I truly believe that if you just went out for tea with a nice person maybe of the opposite gender, no strings, quite innocent, hmmm, both parties may see that Dom may be....spit it out,MK....desirable toothers and thus this will make your W see you through the eyes of the rest of us in that you are quite a catch and she is blindly crazy for letting you go darn it!!!!!! What the rest of the world would give for a loyal good man!!! puleeeze. One D word can bust the other d word. It will at least jolt her into seeing a 180!! And do not say you are using someone else to make her jealous. Think of it as seeing what it is like for fun, GAL. That person can actually know you are trying to save your marriage and are just going out as friends. whatever. or not. people still like to eat right? Don't you think you are worth one date ? With a friend?
Last edited by mkultra; 10/26/0712:25 AM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."