I am so happy that you have found yourself again. You are a wonderful and amazing strong person and I can honestly say that because I met you in person.
Enjoy your first date with your friend. Your STBXH will simply die when he realizes that you have truly moved on without him but it doesn't matter anymore. You are focusing on YOU and that is all that matters.
Much love to you, ISLH
Me: 49 - S22 & S26 H: 41 - No kids M: 10/00 Bomb New Year's Day 2006 H living w OW 01/07; have baby 12/07 D final 07/07 Thread #9 - Hope Lives On