mk, I think I was sold on it when I started it and they were talking about how people tend to flee from conversations that are high stakes (me) or fight, but not in a productive way. an example given was about a couple (there are examples pertaining to business, relationships, etc) and the wife dives right for the snark and sarcasm. yep, me again. if I don't flee, I become unproductive and resort to sarcasm. both detrimental, to say the least.

if you get it, let me know how you like it. I am really loving it, even though I do snicker at self-help language still (can't help it, I swear its better than names of porn movies). I just finished a part that talks of The Pool of Shared Meaning. sorry, just cracked me up. but it makes sense, what they are writing about. absolutely makes sense, but oh the names.


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher