Glad to hear about your daughter. Sorry to hear about the tension from earlier being there with him. I guess it says something small that he stayed home today.
Did he say anything to you at all yesterday about finding him there? Have you decided on the OW's husband thing?
See again I am thinking this OW would have so much to lose by losing her husband. I am sure deep down she has to realize this. Even your husband would lose a lot. He makes less then you, then would have to pay you child support. You could also divorce him on the grounds of adultery which would be a big shame to him. I know he would lose a lot more because your a great woman. It just seems like divorce or running to OW would be that glamorous of a life for him when reality of it all hits. If he is worried about you finding someone else it seems he is worried deep down about losing you. I think it was Faith that use this angle and it worked with her husband? Do you think this could possibly help at all in your circumstance at all? LIke saying well hubby it seems you still want to date even though we are married. While your figuring this out I think I am going to do the same. To maybe help ME figure out if this is what I want.