I will wait and watch and see. I will still be checking to see if they're texting. As I said, I know that snooping is bad, but since he has now officially recommitted to our R, I feel like I need to know what is going on. Before, he hadn't recommitted to us, so the issues were different. However, I will just try to not let it get to me as long as it is short-lived and remains platonic.
