Well, I think you should continue to just go about your business and try to get a life w/o her, honestly. I think you should go ahead & just allow her to make the contact. If she's all about this OP, the A is going to have to run it's course, as much as that sucks. When she does come get her stuff this weekend, just look really good and be really upbeat so she'll wonder what you're so happy about. You can't worry that she's completely done yet or that anything you say or do will push her to that b/c it's either going to happen or not.

This is the most important thing I'm going to say to you though right here: You need to work on YOU so that you are happy w/ you and your life with or w/o her.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10