The distancing is in full effect. The emails and text messages have stopped. The phone calls now are strictly to speak with our son. She isn't inquiring about my day or the activities we may have been involved in. My questions to her are answered nicely but are very short.
Although frustrating, I have detached enough not to get depressed or overly consumed by it. I would prefer she have enough courage to discuss this change of direction with me but the only way in the past I was able to get her to talk was when I did a temperture check.
I am going to watch a little while longer this time to see what happens. She seems to make it up to the fence with me but can't get to the other side.
After 2 years of divorce and 1 year of indecision on her part. It is becoming more apparent that the probabilities of success are becoming more and more remote. I have been giving it my best effort so she should either want to be onboard or not at this stage.
