He's on Match.com

[Dom R]

Okay- to not try to evade your question--....

but you did again
sounds like you're making the "i'm too busy to excercise" excuse?
You allude to "the bike not being on the wall", but I didnt see where you are actually committing to using it?

Last night we (just he and I) went to look at the private owner's car. On the way there he was being a turd and I called him out on it; so he started flirting. T

So.. more reinforcement on, "he likes it when you take charge, and be a "strong" woman.

Hopefully he noticed that the bike was no longer on the wall.

betcha he didnt. sorry. men are not observant about homes. hence how he can ignore the state of his own living space so easily.


It's nice to hear that he seems to be taking self-ownership of his lack of connecting to other people. Sounds like a really positive point of self-growth for him.
(hurray!)

He gave me some really nice kisses goodbye this morning when I dropped him off. And we have been spending a lot of time on the phone (and now IM'ing) about this car sitch. It's been quite pleasant.

So, if we were to summarize "what worked" over the last two days, seems to me like it was:

1. you were "strong"
2. you talked about "doing stuff together", rather than talking about "being together". (ie: no R talk!)

I'm glad your rollercoaster is on an up-swing again.
I hope you will batten down this excercise issue, to keep the momentum going for you both.
it'll also make you feel better. Never mind lack of endorphins during it... human bodies are generally happier when they are getting excercise, eh?