Help me thru this sitch

[Pudmuddle]

I just had a light bulb go on in my head...He is an "acts of service" LL (and also words of affirmation)and just like with this bday thing, he didn't directly ASK me to do it, but more like was expecting me to do it. Also, there was a security scare near my S's school and he sent me the news link, so I send back "did you call to check?" so again I dismissed some acts of service I could have done. Is that an act of service or him trying to test me?? I was trying to figure out if it was our son in trouble why did he not just take the initiative to call right then and there instead of sending me the link??? Fortunately it was at the high school and my son is at the charter school nearby, but STILL. Or am I reading too much into these scenarios, trying to overanalyze him?

Ow. my head hurts now. I did call his school anyway just for my own comfort, but I feel like I am trying to read something into everything now.