My Wife wants out..still!!

[dadtotwo]

GD,I appreciate the link. Hopefully, your R can turn around and be better than ever.

JM, why is it not o.k. to want a reconciliation when you know that you love your S and be angry and her lack of anything?
She can live her own life but running away is not the answer to the problem AND blaming me makes it so easy.

She never had a problem when we built a nice house, drove nice cars and went on vacations etc. Now, I am a "lousy provider" and as the husband and father, I am not the "backbone" of the family that I should be.

A marriage is not just "something you do" and bring children into the world just because it's the "next step". You make a family together and you work through the tough times and not make your S all to blame and make no effort to working on your M.