He always wants to go out with her on "girl's night out." He won't let her go out to the bars wearing pink because "she looks too good in it," (translating into "I'm insecure and don't trust you being around horny guys at the bar").
Do you blame him? If you reconciled would you feel any differently? This is a woman that has proven to be a cheater. He probably doesn't trust her....and maybe with good reason. As you consider whether she would want to reconcile with you...you'll have to reconcile how you could ever trust this woman with your heart again.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
