I am sure my W hasn't given me an honest second thought in weeks if not months. Why....because her fantasy man is the answer to her happiness and a better future!!!
You are probably right. She probably hasn't. And she may never give you a second thought. Can you live with that?
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She cheated and I have to be the "kind" "compassionate" "understanding" "patient" person so she will not hate me later.
Nope. You don't have to be. You don't have to be any of those things. You can completely ignore her cheating a$$ and focus on yourself and making improvements in areas that need improvement. You can get your own life and enjoy it. You can practice being compassionate, kind, and understanding, because that will help you in all relationships, not just one with your spouse. Or you can choose to be an angry and bitter person that can't move past this, but then I don't think there is much hope for your relationship, even if she somehow came back.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
