My Wife wants out..still!!

[dadtotwo]

I do not think I own her. What I meant is that she can blame me for her being unhappy and tell everyone that I am solely to blame for her less than picture perfect life. Yet, she doesn't have to acknowledge that there are two people in a marriage and she DID NOTHING!!! but wait for me to work 3 jobs. She actually believes that people cannot change but she has no problem saying "you are not the same person I married 10 years ago" How ironic that she thinks people can change negatively but not positively.

I am damn angry and I am frustrated that I don't dare say anything while she starts up with OM while we were together and can justify it with no accountability to any one. She cheated and I have to be the "kind" "compassionate" "understanding" "patient" person so she will not hate me later.

This is all about who leaves first so by being the WAS you can call the shots.

I am sure my W hasn't given me an honest second thought in weeks if not months. Why....because her fantasy man is the answer to her happiness and a better future!!!