I'm new to your sitch, but it looks promising. Pursuing is something that would not work for me, but might represent a 180 for you. As long as you are getting those kinds of responses, go for it. While it show amazing confidence for you to say that you that you would not resist the separation, I agree with Dom that you never want to hasten a result that you do not want. Be strong, but careful
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair