Yep. You're absolutely right. I felt the exact same way. DR, and the other similar books I've read, also stress that to make the M work in this situation acting on your anger will just drive your S away.
So, is being angry working for you? You are entitled to be angry and indignant at what your W has done. FWIW, I agree with you. You're W has behaved poorly. That said, you want her back or do you want to be right?
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
