That sounds reasonable to me. But, I wouldnt be surprised if W took that as being controlling or manipulative. If your W is like mine, she has an amazingly low tolerance for what you say. I cant win. Even in issues dealing with the kids, let her take the lead.
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair