Ok well, I've posted feedback in other forums/topics and no one responds to my posts...
Sometimes takes a while to get some traction. Be patient. As you type more, folks will respond as they see something they think they can respond to. Sometimes, you just got nothin' to say, you know? Plus, you'll find that you can't keep track of everyone -- it's 1) depressing and 2) impossible. You'll settle in with a loose group of folks and drop in from time to time on others.
You've been on this cycle a few times. You've got to decide if you think you and your H can get off of it. I found it helpful to read DR once or twice along with a variety of other R books. Drop me a line and I'll be happy to share some ebooks with you: duhonius@gmail.com. I find that they're mutually reinforcing.
Regarding the bday toy, why not just send him an email asking HIM what HE'S going to get for her, with a few suggestions. Puts the ball back in his court. If he then asks, go ahead and do it. No need to make your niece suffer because of your sitch.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
