Thanks for the feedback. Let me ask...why do I not have the right to be angry?? Also, why does she get to have a "free pass" and can take my kids away, rush for a D and start up with OM???

How amazing that the one that walks away gets to dictate what happens!! The LBS has to do nothing to make the WAS upset while they break apart a family!! God forbid that we dare bring up the M/R for fear of pushing them away!! Of course, the WAS doesn't have to be accountable for their actions since they can justify what they are doing to everyone.

In my sitch, I am the "bad guy" that ruined her life and made her unhappy. She did nothing to help nor show that she cared abot keeping our family together.

Solution...run away, start a new R and not give a damn about the lives you are affecting!!!

Meanwhile, I have to sit back and take it so I can keep the R "friendly". She does not take one ounce of responsibility for her part of the M but gets a free pass to rewrite history and be unfaithful!!!


Me: 41
W: 40
D5, S4
Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007
Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007