Ok, so question for anyone out there. When the EA came out, and she claimed she wanted it to work, that our marriage was worth fighting for, I made some 'demands'. 1. Had find a new job - SOON - any contact with OM is not acceptable in my opinion 2. Any contact outside of 'professional', needed to be shared with me (in the spirit of our new 'honesty/openness' policy) 3. There were a couple other less significant things
She agreed to all of them. Which at the time, I thought was a good thing, now I'm wondering if it was just the panic in her agreeing to it. So - How hard do I push on the job thing? But more importantly, do I ask (daily) about contact with OM? I feel like I'm pushing, but also feel like I need to remind her that we are putting everything out there for the other. I guess I feel like they have probably talked outside of the 'professional' arena, and I have a right to know??? Or am I just making myself crazy..???
