I know you weren't saying bring it up. I've actually never been dishonest about it, just non-committal. drives my h crazy because he's used to me being an open book, while keeping his life completely closed. interesting point about canned responses. I think I'll have some at my fingertips, but still rely on sips of water and such to slow me down, not to mention being okay with telling him I need time to process.

looking forward to continuing my book, too. hopefully will have more confidence once I've finished it.

okay, big proud here, folks. his amex came today and I AM NOT OPENING IT TILL SUNDAY.


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher