I also understand the panic response, but you have got to stop it. When we first separated, I was pathetic and paniced frequently. At time, I did it in front of the kids. She hated it and I now know that it drove her further away. Be strong. be confident, and most importantly, be patient.
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair