DaveJ,

I also understand the panic response, but you have got to stop it. When we first separated, I was pathetic and paniced frequently. At time, I did it in front of the kids. She hated it and I now know that it drove her further away. Be strong. be confident, and most importantly, be patient.


Me-46;W-42
Together 23 yrs Married 16
S11 S8 S6
02/10/03 Her 1st affair
10/01/06 Sep Bomb
01/01/07 Sep Begins
03/09/07 Her 2nd affair

My Sitch