no, it shouldn't be compromise, it just reminds me when I had my 2nd child and was home for 2mths, how I was able to cook, clean, mind the kids take them out and heal from a Csection, my H would overheat if I asked him to do more than 2 things and would joke saying "but i'm not superhuman like you!" Thing is, he took so much because I let him, now and then I'd had it, hand him the baby and say "I need a break now" and close the door, despite the crying and fighting (from kids) I could hear outside my door. Unless blood was seeping from under it I wouldnt' open the door, despite a small part of me wondering "I bet the baby is wet and that he didnt' warm up the boy's food", etc etc., I forced myself to take my rest despite whatever crisis was going on out there.
Go on, take your 30mins, she sure gives herself 'til 9:30 to get to work, you should get your 30 darn it.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
