btw: I wasnt suggesting to bring it up. I thought you specifically were asking, "if he asks, should I be honest?"
and my reply to that is, "if he asks, i think you should be honest"
great idea on "no kneejerk reactions". you're probably better off, not thinking about pre-canned responses too deeply. because you might be overly tempted to pull out one of your preselected responses, rather than reply to what he is specifically saying at the time.
Maybe just be prepared emotionally, in a broad sense, for possible areas.
Last edited by Dom R; 10/25/0708:01 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle