Saffie - my H did the same thing about not wanting to hurt OW to let or down gently - well WTF!!! Who DID he think he was hurting - he probably figure I was 'winning' him the 'prize' and she was losing so let her down easily.
Even still my h says it was hard to make the choice he knew it'd never work with her (no one would accept their R) and coming back to me meant real work too. Boy this makes me feel like the lesser of two evils I told him!!! We are looking forward to our Retro weekend tomorrow evening it starts!!! He says he has a list two pages long - I said if issues with me???? H says well those and things I think about. So I started my own list!!!
I hope we come out of their alive....
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing